5 ways to talk to strangers
Published in Social Development at November 20th, 2007 (3)
Many people find initiating conversation with strangers in social situations awkward at best. What should I say? What should I do? What if can’t think of anything else to say? What if I’m boring? What if they’re boring? - What if this, what if that.
It’s time to ditch those what ifs. After all is said and done, fear of the “yet to happen” is only just false evidence appearing real. Instead of missing out on great opportunities to meet new people, try these five simple ways to talk to strangers next time you find yourself in such a situation.
#1 - Introduce yourself.
If you ever find yourself alone at a social event and near someone else who is too, take the first step and introduce yourself; a simple “Hi, I’m _______. How’s it going?” will suffice. You’d be surprised at how many people often forget this crucial point!
#2 - Make a comment about your situation or surroundings.
If you’re at a party, ask them how they’re enjoying it. If you’re at a wedding, ask them how they know the wedding party. If you’re at a funeral, ask them how they knew the deceased. If you’re at a school club or hobby meeting, ask them how they got involved with it or how they first heard about it.
